Chapter one
Some stuff from the history of the question
Let’ s say from the beginning that under the sticker “ Russian Woman” we will keep in mind all the ladies, natives from CIS countries, former territory of the Soviet Union with the population in hundreds millions people equal approximately on the web modern population of confirmed Unite States of The globe. So, when the big country confident enough other hemisphere collapsed durring an 1991 and was converted to small independent national republics, hundred millions people, grown equipped similar social formation, ended up with one and the only inheritance – Russian language as a dowry, which used to unite them all, and as a line – the similar Russian consciousness. And undoubtedly, minimum half of them were the women, with the different position, different life experiences and carriers but with one similarity – national and demographical tragedy, which in the changing epoch as with the scythe mowed excellent before men. The biologists proved in which evolution is built the way that the women accept the teachings given by the draws, preparing their inside familial to mutations. And the men who are not able to overcome the stresses or maybe in resistance to low are dying. Survivors will become only those who are able to be adoptive to just about anything evolutionary transformation. Only they will plow the new seeds for an additional generations.
So, minimum hundred million concerned educated women of reproductive age was left in the demographic street. Of course, some of these were lucky – they had the beloved one’ s, husbands or just boyfriends. But there are came the huge groups of those who had lack of men, because all – an improved and the worst of those were already occupied. Of course, those women, left without personal life can stay in the long turn of waiting, sacrificing their women’ s destiny to the good luck chance. But go well with them were not to attend the wonders, but to the miracles with their different hands. So the glances of former compatriots, Russian women around the expectations turned towards over a western, including American, men. Among those women the the natives from Ukraine start Byelorussia, the proud ladies from the Caucasus and Central The indian subcontinent, the pale blonds from Baltic countries and the natives from the conduct of Siberia. Although it may seem strange but the one or more different continents were pushed to each other and mutual communication for a economic crises and instability to your CIS counties. And the developing in the Global System of Internet was quiet an advantage to this entire plot. If, for example, this demographic crises would happen hundred of years reverse, it is possible is that your sequences of the wearisome wait of the financers from overseas surely doomed to failure. Because there were just the big ships which cruised between your continents and the high-speed planes commonly are not invented yet. But in the current days when all the marriage desires may one day come true, there was destined to be establish the bridge at the rear of integration and cultural amount of nations and nationalities resistant to the foreign marriages. Or the inventive God as a reminder decided to mix us from its times of Babylon wind generator tower, with so different past experiences, languages and genetic listings? Or may be the powerful Universe once again make experiments with myself, mixing it genetic cocktail?
So, all the huge and strong such as the ocean wave, human crowd, pushed out from their regular nests of habitat judging by demographic and economic crisis’ s, supposed to be targeted near the shores of the new continents and this happened. Statistics of yesteryear 10 years showed 70 thousands foreign brides at just from Russia. And, it’ s four Russian speakers per day, settling only in THE UNITED STATES, not covering the in another country. Impressive picture, isn’ t it so? For example that you are woman immigrant who happen to be here, trying to learn the grammar rules of the fresh new language, to get used to your culture of the new country and the same time as if to support you there are coming dozens a number of people like you, with exactly the same transformations in the private and social interaction, which they are destined to be faced here. They come not alone - with one tiny or several. Potentially they come with relatives, parents (although it is just in one from 12 cases). But what I want to say that the population advisors great country as America grows due to so called “ Russian natives” around CIS, coming here day after day for already more then 10 years. And this process are sure to continue…
I cannot say what's the randomness of statistic, but according to our famous Russian Internet forums in america (for example like [well.com.ru]) and consuming consideration the migration processes of an Eastern European countries, we can suppose that during the last decade half a million people left from home lands in all instructions. Of course, no all of them landed on the The particular shores. But the fact usually in USA subsided three and a half million of coming all night Russians!
Chapter two
To show and to be seen!
It’ s proven already by the public opinion that the actual precise Slovenian women are highly effective, attractive and tolerant. Their beauty they got from the natural combination of nationalities, which from old times took place on their territories. As well as in the century of democratic changes once the private property was forbidden like in the times of socialism, so no property issues chosen human’ s life’ s, people fell in drill down, married and went to construct the big industrial cities of the past days with their enjoyed one’ s. The kids born from such bonds, as it known often are beautiful and strong, so we can confess at least something certain the social formation did for all those deprived from the private property. Those who have nothing to loose at least inside a right for sex choice your current assurance that the state will take care about yours young lad future – give the available room in the hostel or even free kinder garden. This way the increasing of progression of population was stimulated. The social formation make people sure that all children will grow together uncover like brothers. This nicest slogan from the socialism are still in memories of those who sit on the real school benches and was taught close to similar school programs with obligatory little while secondary education.
Why Slovenian ladies are are smart? First of all because their parents wed run by the are fond of feeling not by reason based on property concerns. Second, because the education even in colleges and universities in Soviet Russia those days were at no charge. It means that if you want to study, have the persistence, and habits, skilful enough and wishes and desires to be educated - go ahead and with no pay needed! There appeared the new class old days estate Russian society – a particular Soviet intelligence. Brought up on the best traditions of the earth culture and on although the samples if classic literature and heroic deeds regarding ancestors, those people were not only alive screws of that system, they created the original contest of the community consciousness, which was reflected covering the movies, which biggest fans we all were in our childhood as well as now. If you would like to pull the rope connecting the hundred different our people into nintendo's generation, in order to really know what the cultural contest is was previously, just name please for example comedy of Gaidie “ The adventures of Shurik or even the operation “ I” ”. To recognise the humor of one nation just be born and grown in this surrounding. Or to spend actively confident enough new one not less the ten years! My colleague from Moscow University who lived in the united states now for more as a consequence 12 years, actively initiatives and studies here, once in the background conversation told that only after ten years in the new country she place to grasp all the jokes regarding American nation and laugh on the griddle too. And we discuss the epochs with their influences...
Regarding the question a part of why our Slovenian women are definitely the most tolerant or prey, I’ ll tell that may well poor girls overcame everything in the short period during a single century like wars, crises and revolutions that the life willy-nilly made them tolerant. As in in terms of the proverb: “ For one beaten they give two unbeaten one’ s”.
Chapter 3
Let’ s make aquientenance in the united states!
So, women came to improve boundless, spread on the three time zones country which is although tighter then the one they once informed about belong, which was prolonged for 7 time zones to start new biography in order fiancé e, wife’ s, daughter’ s of in terms of the religious immigrants, or the refugees that were given their political asylum, or just those who came here about the worker’ s visas. They are numerous. The life will filtrate all of them in the one vanishing pot. But while the years are passing by someplace they will plug their roots… And even if of an three millions living here in the us Russian speakers what once in a while called “ available” around the local secondary market in the Russian fiancé e also helps in even 10 percents – it will be already huge army depended on 300 000 people, willing to find their new women’ s destiny (if not just got already). Or even if we would take into consideration that their availability amount is notably smaller, for example have fun with 1 percent, it also helps in nevertheless 30 000 Russian women, the potential Russian brides and wife’ s! And of course whom as if not for the naturally born on this land Americans would they give their best chances and preferences to pick out and be selected!
Chapter 4
Where to find them?
The target for those who decided through the different motives to join their destinies with acquire ethnic Russian woman is certainly not simply could be aligned. To reply on this question they needed to have known the friends heading towards same original language sphere as their potential brides. Because you cannot retard every attractive face for aquientenance with the same question: “ Tell me personally please, do you take delight in Russian roots? ” In order to get positive reply on this question one desire to be lucky, like the is going to be the readers of almost everything, specially born to discover the happiness with the statutory immigrant from CIS.
So, let’ s give several directions leading to satisfy the preliminary reader’ s attention. And further on it will be like in the child’ s song: “ One brick, then two bricks will be the ladder. ” So, installing the compass about what direction to move just about anything insistent reader and soon after the Russian idea American sooner or later will enter this market of brides. Of program, there does exist even the primary market of European brides. It means one may go to the historic motherland of the new sony Russian women, where you will don't need to ask every lady you really fond of, what and is particularly her language and sources, because the reply will be cleared even without this in advance. And we will describe it in the foreseeable future. And for now – let’ s make an exact scheme.
Let’ s imagine that you, readers are more mature man, who will soon get retired or is already retired and your additional privacy with the strongly independent American ladies extraordinary some reason did not settled. You already somewhere heard or maybe has seen in your current friend’ s sample about that Slovenian wife is good- cheap nice housekeeper, economic and not demanded woman and charming personality a plus. And you want in order to bite the fruit for the tree of knowledge. How and where you can find one? To fly abroad – it’ s too expensive and your health might not exactly allow. Beside those horrors in which press describes about the third world frown on you? And how for the things easier, and as he joke in far learning websites “ not to jet to Odessa through Vladivostok”? The actual distance between these two cities in the way other hemisphere is equal from continental Usa Hawaii.
Waiting for solution – here I am to it like the mistress to your hot pancakes. First of all dig up the Russian wife associated with an friends or neighbors for people who have such, she will with pleasure let you know if she had alone nice partner or attractive woman relative loaded in character on her motherland, able to be married. And up to oh, wonder – the result miracles happen! You will don't really need to move far. The fact the Slovenian kindness drives these companies make happiness of alice ex-colleagues (so, such ladies professional will be educated), old friends or use the far relative. Even if such women right away will say you that he / she could not remember those who would like to be engaged, they may call you week after, amazing you that they actually remember one or another girls. Then do not leave your joy and write down the address, telephone, e-mail, or any other contact information using only which you may exposure such potential fiancé ent. Internet in CIS (former Russian) international locations is functioned from in the past but with the regular to enjoy Internet and personal computer can boast only previous number selected one’ s, according to statistic one from thousand. So, get ready to determine telephone connection and buy before going to cheap telephone cards inch Wall Mart, where about a minute talk with CIS counties is like not more the 15 dollars, and in big cities this will couple of cents- much less costly then long distant calls remembrance of so put US.
So, about the legend of how to become introduced through personal aquientenance we already have been heard. Let’ s dig deeper and wider in order to the roots of this the situation. Comparatively peaceful, painful and practically gratis method of getting aquientenance with Ukrainian, Moldavian and many other things Russian-Slovenian women - growing to be Internet. But not the dating agencies that will sock out dozen of dollars for the face you prefer to contact, but so called Russian immigration sites and forums the nation, where often the opinions in two languages is given. The brightest example growing to be russianwomenabroad. com russianwomenabroad. org and russianwomenmagazine. com russianwomenmagazine. org. Through this Russian Ladies Internet Periodicals in USA one has direct way to any secondary market of Euro brides, and you, completing you portfolio are able to place your ad and picture there with no payment. The same scheme against this hard copied newspapers or magazines of all the small difference that you can make small payment. For example “ Was waiting for yourself all my life” … If you're very lucky by nature you'll possess your aim already inside first case- inquiring Russian wife’ s of your buddies about their friends lead in CIS and planning marriages. If you just lucky guy you might fish you purpose via the web forums and free dating option several. And if the life could not reward you, even born in such blessed place like I neither with first not with second qualities, let’ s go further on so you can catch the bird of success by the colored pheasant plumage.
Chapter five
Going to Russia
According via the web American legislation, in for your money the fiancé e up of abroad could obtain mastercard to States, to us embassies overseas should be provided photos of the personal meetings in conjunction with the future couple as an indication. And so-called “ Chinese” variants as the “ fiancé e due to correspondence” will not muscle toning here.
… Thus when you've honestly keep the membership of each and every dozens of marriage handlebars, specializing of the enquiries of Russian Brides, spent various hours through electronic correspondence, couple of money for the says communications and small presents with respect to potential selected few, there is started your starry an hour, when you ignoring old ulcer and the warnings regarding doctor are packing the beg in the direction of unknown, mysterious and frightening world and health of their name CIS, for the stable and comparatively cheap stuff like Russian Fiance-to-be! I’ ll tell you first of all - leave you fears home – the bear’ s slandered last time with the Moscow Red Square in the eighteenth century and besides on considering out bank account chain, when the moving circus visited place. Modern Western Europe is civilized the spot that the only gap in this flourishing amongst stylish buildings is the lack regular hot water by now hotels. But in this case you may work apart from others new rule – to rinse the face with the cool water or only to rent instead of hotels the ultra-modern apartments in the personally identifiable sector, where there are being used boilers for heating some water. And the only incident with respect to immediate disappearance of the hot water tends to be that disconnect of electricity. But the same thing on occasion happen even in my personal American house, when from the storms the trees go, breaking the wires. As everywhere the special services is to called to settle the difficulties. May be in America this works only a little bit faster. On the flip side in Russia (including CIS counties) the best stimulus for these services to try and do their job quickly becomes the financial stimulus (from twenty dollars or more, depending on the complications of arousing problems). In general what are known as “ stress tourism” is fantastic for the organism and boost the immunization factors.
So, you are with the beg together with presents and the four legs or better five digits balance the particular credit card are staying because of door where your possibility fiancé e lives. Let’ s aspiration after so many some time and expenses you finally merit your good luck avian, just exact what you good at dream about in your residence in the depths around the neglected American territories. You will be, you will probably come again on the Russia, Ukraine, and Byelorussia, Moldova merely CIS Baltic countries. Some of the men using only agencies arrange so known “ marriage tours”, greater resolve this issues certain way, spending for these works from several thousands or even more, depending on your financial possibilities and the needs of your soul lady. Let’ s imagine finally the lady you were hoping to find is found and will it chare your life supplier. What to do eventually?...
Chapter 6
Documents and bother are closely connected…
After the 11-th of September background check of your long run sweetheart by security while others who are entering us may take months. How to jump into despair waiting for you future wife, and make you stay feelings fresh? There are a lot of variants. First of all is to follow all the instructions thanks to the fact US embassies sites relating preparing documents for entryway (their web-addresses easy can be found through search engine using the internet. com google. com). They may be as follow: notarized papers that each of you is not married for current moment, the divorce papers inside previous marriage should you have had such. To the fiancé e using bride to his acquire for permanent living the testament to financial competence. Sometimes the references from psychiatrist that your particular man is in healthy mind and guilty of the decision-making and steps they're taking now (smile, please). The lady should hurry up and translate into English and legalize within references from police department in their home country that she not have criminal record – of course what country wish to have such people? And that each her children from the prior marriages are released with regards to biological father from your house country and is blessed for the other hand new life abroad…
If each one can’ t wait to generatte married and the immigration paper procedure is still hanging, couple can get married in your own home country of the fiancé e (one to your exotic marriages in CIS), preparing to this a few more documents like references about health conditions and the absence of Aids. And then lady can restart that will put papers in order including the legal wife and enter US where status. It means that inside port of entrance she has taken fingerprints and have employment authorization stamp. And all the business deals like residence card offered one month by lowest amount mail. And you will economy in to the visit in INCHES offices.
If your lady will come on fiancé e visa you could marry with regards to the local rules and tradition near your vicinity in the local Courthouse or in Church in four weeks and fill all anything for changing her status yourself, using the new, very well done Immigrations site on [bcis.gov] place allow even to the novices if for example legal fields to choose the ends and to straighten out in the narrow corridors of paper procedures.
Chapter seven
How to replant the Russian wife via the web new life?
Of frame, we choose in CIS not nastiest women, visa versa we choose the best of them! We put an eye into the educated doctors, teachers ' artists, scientists. And probably expecting them to see the same achievements in their carrier fields right here. But usually it would not go this way. Let’ s take ideal situation once your fiancé e or wife won't have language barrier. And if she has one? Language courses in the utilization Adult Education Centers might not satisfy her intellectually, but the course of English as the second language in education may not fit an individual pocket expenses. Besides you are faced the necessity to operate a vehicle her over there to come back, because in her home country even when she use the car only in the degree of a passenger - public transit is strongly developed throughout to Eastern Europe. What to do so? How to improve dutch? How to overcome the shyness to have a chat in new language? New families resolve this doubting the fact that differently. Some people if their language knowledge is a good example instead of intimacy in the partner will spend the complete spare evenings with in the books, explaining to she all the narrow places and they all the nuances of spanish. Some, vise versa, possesses his own limited vocabulary of the ideas they use in the regular life and cannot be useful with this. My advice - take the wife to the library so as to get the audiotapes, because the particular books give the vocabulary and sentence construction promises, only the alive literary speech of audiotape classic tomes with historic or modern everyday plots will activate the speaking center and aspire to express perfectly herself inside new language sphere. Obtain the novels of almost all of these popular authors, for model like Danielle Steel. If you let her listen – in the home in earphones, in the car while driving…
Ah, we forgot to talk about among the most important besides language keys of adaptation for this American life – driving issues. Only, please, do not make fun by the forty years old spouse your boyfriend lives so many years unknowingly how to drive! You personally will never drive from you child’ in cradle! You were also needed a reasonable time of driving experience be with no fear 70 mph on the highway. Try to understand the fact, that whenever you were first taking lessons you were fifteen. But for the ladies after thirty-five it’ s lose more complicated to overcome fears to make right parallel parking as an example. So, it will be better if your wife gets here to the States already taught dropping pounds drive. Do not economy 100-200 bucks from the. While learning the main rules in her native language, the other practical skills she'll take under your particulars, so after some time you'll be proud of yourself and thus teacher. So, the auto-courses and also the English for the beginners are the best taken primary in his / her home country (the prices differs from 200 to 500 dollars). It is the dowry, which your future loved one can bring to both you and her education, common smartness, professional housekeeping skills, kind heart, and flexible body. Explanation, do not restrain finance with the first two one’ s and also the last one’ s you look forward to as a bonus!
Chapter eight
What you’ ll seed, the same you’ ll harvest…
There exist one banal proverb introduced by coming to US immigrants. “ Is there a guarantee period of offer a Russian wife? ” Men and women who made up such be on it, spiteful reply: “ Till the very first day of naturalization”. Relax; it’ s just one joke! First of all because the citizenship she will not get shortly (it takes minimum from 3 to 5 years from her advance, but in reality it's going to take much longer). Second, because if you're nice guy – no wife manufactures you. And really, why is this she should change during the time you, if you are very? The Slovenian mentality reflects this in that , proverb “ Do not look for better adequate something real good”.
But if they are not so perfect, and it is often mean, angry and greedy guy and health of their attempts to control everything, be ready for your entire conflicts in family for starters. And, please, do not try to scare poor girl that when she will act hate you wish, she will not get her green greeting cards. American law is the most humanistic law across the world and already took care in order that the humiliating slavery in relationships will be eliminated when they definitely and forever. So if you blokes are flying overseas either to find there low to purchasing upkeep home slave bio machine utilizing a sexy appearance, submissive and then judge wordless, just stop consequently, fellow! Slovenian women are proud and although is quite patient for long, when right time to come may become really revengeful and proceed the green card repeatedly based on the fact of number of years marriage. And on likely the spouse’ s threatens and also the attempts to forbid the contacts of all the compatriots, to control the email correspondence or eavesdropping the phone talks, can sue you love for psychological abuse. And can leave you for take care of, where she can be maintained, and will be legalized on her own in this country and you are therefore face the fact for it to cost plus for her the support money. This is how much, because when you fill the papers to eat your fiancé eй e throughout the country, you automatically guarantee her huge salary not from public - by the pocket. So, be kind in such an commodity and you’ ll be worth it with the kind and doesn't good housekeeper, lovely wife there with you. If you’ ll play the role of cheap, to practice family tyranny, you will not then even try to ask where did your flushed have such ugly “ lips of dragon”. I can tell you the term. People, grown in that , communal kitchens can tie down themselves easily. Or as being the old book says: “ Men and women who plant the despair deserve no faith. Who use the joy will get a new hope”.
Chapter nine
Or continuation to your adaptation
So, the time has come to pass through couple of useful links. Educational Degree of your spouse can seen by visiting the sites in about ece. org ece. org or wes. org wes. org. Usually, the regular college in Eastern Europe through five years program is like equal for Bachelors. Whomever, who had studied in European which kind of graduate school, will are able to get local Masters. Not all American institutions are big on the international degrees even inside top colleges in CIS. Flavor good positions you may fill out only having the local involving degree. And if your mother is eager to study and you are ready to invest into her education to go in year or two state degrees, based on her credits evaluations inside previous school, do present shooter. Nobody ever regret time and expense invested into the individual studies, because this piece for sure paper will feed your family all your life. Wherever you will live in future.
But to regret, majority will never learn in all the subtle differences the the nearest language, and never will tired the professional cliffs they good at climb in their tradition life. And for that they may get ready in proceed. Many women change someone's occupation. The school directors in the past become the substitute teachers; qualified doctors go it is not medical nursery. Who desires what, tastes are varied. A lot of women closer to their fifties with poor people language simply go for the other hand part-time cashier’ s positions, or become waitresses in that , restaurants, or the college dorm cleaners. Although this job's not simple besides not creative and also bad paid… To stand for 5-7 days and nights and keep attention is not the easiest job to do, so nobody gets the simple bread.
Those are luckier who used to deals with arts inside their motherlands and can draw or play specialist tools. Americans, especially young, are actually sensitive to the disciplines, that’ s why these are probably have the clients considering that private lessons – and health of their payment from 20 to 40 dollars per hour, depending on qualification the spot that the State you are sofa in…
Chapter ten
Or the result cultural adaptation
it’ s not a secret, that Russian women are actually communicative. Before coming here the majority lived or studied by using the big cities. So, allow your new wife to make friends and over here, help her to find over time cultural places like galleries, exhibitions, theaters and galleries. Do not prevent her to understand more about this new for her world therefore , the adaptation, which usually takes from half year to year and a half, will certainly pass smoothly…
Russian tales usually carried out with the thesis, “ They will live together in a peace and a harmony many years! ” Slovenians know how to love, to be faithful and appreciative of the man who proposed on her behalf the place near his oven. Hope you‘ ll settle days. And peace for your place on many years!
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